It can also feel confusing at times, with a lack of examples and material when it comes to trying out different lesbian sex positions. The male-gaze porn industry often fetishizes lesbian sex and rarely depicts realistic positioning and pleasuring.
The good news, though, is that when it comes to lesbian sex, exploration is one of the best parts of it! Trying out new and different positions with your partner can be exciting and extremely intimate. So grab your partner, click on some sexy tunes, and have fun exploring these positions together. This is a classic for a reason. Rubbing the clit is the most common way women achieve orgasm, and scissoring does exactly that.
To simultaneously enjoy both giving and receiving it! Start gently by teasing each other. The main difference between queening and traditional face-sitting is that the partner on top turns around in the opposite direction. This gives the partner on the bottom a unique vantage point to use her mouth, tongue, face, and fingers to stimulate both the G-spot and the clit, building up to a powerful blended orgasm.
The partner on top is in full control of speed and rhythm, making the orgasm as intense as they want it to be. This position is perfect for a full-out oral feast. Have the receiving partner sit upright on a chair or the edge of a bed and spread her legs wide. The giving partner then kneels on a pillow in front while the receiver wraps her legs around their neck and tilts her pelvis closer to the edge.
The kneeling partner can then go to town, like an all-you-can-eat buffet. This is a sexy position for dom play, too. If you want to try for a blended orgasm, add in your favorite vibrator while using the tongue to stimulate the clit. Or, if you want to free up her mouth to kiss other areas, switch to a dual action vibrator that will stimulate both the clit and the g-spot while the giver is free to use her mouth in other ways.
