Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody. I am not against pornography per se and we have in the past used this as part of our sex lives - but this to me doesn't seem like pornography - more like a search for a service, which is what makes me feel really worried.
I rang the number and a man answered and when i said i was ringing about a massage and he put the phone down Also, some of the mobile numbers listed in his history when you ring them, just ring and then go in to voice mail the generic one , or are not recognised????
He also has some calls in his history just saying "private call" OP how awful for you. It would be a total deal breaker for me. He is having sex or sexual services with a prostitute, or he is planning to. By the amount of info you have found I would say he is already doing it regualrly. I'm really sorry. I don't think there's any possible innocent explanation for this, you have a lot of evidence.
I think you have to assume your husband is regularly sleeping with prostitutes, and before you confront him, you have to decide what you want to do about that. Personally, I would see a solicitor first, come up with a separation plan, and only then confront him with the evidence and tell him to leave.
I would want to have a plan in place first to limit discussion, because I know there would be no possibility of any way back from this for my relationship. Log in to update your newsletter preferences. Save screenshots of everything you've found and copies of all phone bills. I would also be inclined to search his ipad for hidden e mail accounts. Emotionally, you need to decide if you can stay in a marriage with a man who pays for sex.
