If you've clicked on this article you're either curious about anal fingering, a fan of butt play or a huge Dr. Seuss fan, and in that case I'm sorry. Let's be real, over the past few years, ass play has become a pretty popular item on the menu. But if you're not keen on doing anal, or eating someone out - using a finger can be a great way to ease into it. Also for guys or people with prostates it can apparently be one of the best orgasms of your life, all thanks to a lil' nugget of gold called the prostate aka p-spot.
We also asked cis straight men specifically if they were into it and over half of you said yes. Whether someone asked you to do it, or you're keen to have someone do it to you, here's everything you need to know about anal fingering.
Most people who dm'd us saying they used their fingers to dabble in a bit of ass play, gave glowing reviews. Some even went as far to say "best orgasm of my life. According to Men's Sex Coach Cam Fraser, it's because we have a whole bunch of nerve endings in and around that area. Because the receptors in there respond to pressure and temperature and friction and stretching as well.
So we get a whole bunch of different types of sensation of different types of pleasure from anal play. Cam reckons one of the other reasons why people really like butt play during sex is because it can feel a bit naughty. For guys or people with prostates, using a finger for ass play can apparently lead to a whole body orgasm - because of the way you're stimulating the prostate. But it also needs to contract to be able to propel the sperm all the way up.
And Cam says when you stimulate the prostate, you can have an orgasm separate from what you would have through penis ejaculation. Like a full body experience, rather than an isolated orgasm experience [through the penis]. But yeah, really incredible. We do a lot and say a lot of stuff during sex you'd probably never do or say outside the bedroom.
