Thanks for checking out my blog! I write sometimes confessional, always sex-positive posts about sex, relationships, and porn. I thought I knew how to give a blowjob. Then I started taking them a lot more seriously. Blowjobs were never my strong suit. Before I started giving head, the thought of putting a dick in my mouth made me nervous. Once the first one made its way past my lips, I loved knowing I was the dirty girl who gave her boyfriend a little something extra.
But after that initial thrill was gone, it just became a thing I did. Mostly, I gave head to be generous. I wanted to give pleasure in whatever ways I could. So when my long-term relationship turned into a settled one, I gradually gave up on it completely. I used my hands and pussy to pleasure my husband, but my mouth was just for moaning. Years later, I had a complete change of attitude. It was partly because my relationship was in a good place and our spark was coming back.
Mostly, it was because I had been writing erotica and it helped me see how arousing and satisfying giving a good blowjob could be. Saying I was rusty would be an understatement. I wanted to get better at it - I had a lot of years to make up for. There were some trials and a few errors, but mostly it went well. I could tell I was getting better with every week that went by. I learned new techniques, figured out which ones worked really well, and found out that it can pay to imitate the things you see Verified Amateurs do on Pornhub.
I could tell the difference in the way Mr. Austin reacted, too. The better I got, the deeper and longer he moaned. He praised me more eagerly. He started saying really dirty things to me while stroking my hair. Every time, I felt like I was earning my good girl badge. All the positive feedback he gave me was so arousing and rewarding. That alone made me want to keep improving. That was over two years ago. If you want to give your partner some decent head, you can give his cock a few licks and bob your head on it.
I got by on it for years with zero complaints. But if you want to suck his cock so well he groans your name, these are the techniques you should start working into your blowjob. Arousal supercharges you with energy. You feel warm all over. Even the sun seems brighter. Arousal is a spectrum. The higher you can get him on that horny scale, the better everything will be for him. So, make sure you build his arousal by teasing him.
