By missy December 26, in Dating Advice. I've been going on dates with a guy I met online for about 2. He's 23 years old and we met on Coffee Meets Bagel app. On our last date, we had a conversation about how we feel how things are headed. He said he's looking for a long-term relationship and that he really likes me and he hasn't seen anyone else since he started seeing me. He has also introduced me to one of his friends.
I also told him I feel the same way about him and that I'm not interested in dating other people as well. Today I noticed he changed his profile picture on the dating app. We just had the conversation a couple of days ago and we have another date coming up. I don't know what to make of this.
Should I confront him or let things be? We're not official yet but I thought he implied exclusivity with that last conversation we had. Changing profile picture? I mean you know what he looks like for real right? Would it matter then afterwards if he changes his profile picture? First of all, exclusivity shouldn't be and usually isn't 'implied'. It should be stated loud and clear.
Saying 'I haven't dated anyone else since I met you' is NOT the same as 'I'm not interested in dating anyone else because I want to be exclusive with you'. The fact that he posted a new picture means he's still looking. If I were you and provided I wanted to be exclusive with him , I wouldn't mention the picture but I would tell him I've thought about the conversation we had the other day and decided I want to be exclusive with him and ask how he feels about it.
I believe he'll say something like he wants to take things slow.. Yeah I agree with missmarple. It sounds the way you wrote it like he is still fairly casual with you.
