Now what? What are you going to do with her? Picking her up from home or not? How do I prepare for a date? What do you talk about during the date? Who pays the bill? Lovemaking after the first date? In the beginning, you should only use the phone number for WhatsApp. Most Brazilian men never get in touch after having kissed a girl. The three-day rule we know in the West posits that you must wait three days before sending a message to avoid looking desperate.
In Brazil, you have to do the opposite. You need to get in touch within three days. Try to arrange a date as soon as possible. Remember: the more popular the girl is, the more quickly you have to take action.
Brazilian women are used to that. For some Brazilian women, this may take a while. In Rio de Janeiro, women are more afraid to meet up, because a lot of weird things happen on dates these days. Then you have no other choice than to take more time to gain her trust. Only have her phone number? Take her out for drinks. Keep it simple. If things go well, you can invite her to dinner.
Some Brazilian women only want to meet if you pick them up from home in a car, cab, or with a motorcycle in good weather. My advice is to always suggest that you pick her up.
Dress well When you take a Brazilian woman to a restaurant, make sure you look well dressed. Davide, a year-old surfer from Rio de Janeiro, once explained it to me in detail. When a Brazilian woman has a date, she does her utmost to look her absolute best. Think of the following:. She will look absolutely perfect. But be aware of the time, energy and money this has cost. The very least you can do is make sure you look well-groomed and take her to a good restaurant.
